I am glad Tory is here not Ford!

Yes, I am not a great admirer of Ford, so anybody is better.
 I do not like bullies and Ford is clearly a big bully, who thinks he is the best. No, I am sorry, you are not the best, may be the fattiest among politicians but clearly not the best and clearly lots of people are tired of you and your embarrassing antics.
  So forget about your politics big bully and take care of your health, you really need it. I wish you'd be able to lose some weight, and I do not want you to have cancer - it's a nasty disease and way too many people in Canada suffer from it.
   It's a great pity that such a nice clean peaceful country has so many sick and sick on a head people.
  May be our government has to change some rules regarding all that chemicals our food producers shamelessly put in all our food. But that's another story.
   Right now I just wanted to say that I am very VERY pleased that Tory will be on pages of our magazines and newspapers not Ford.
   Hopefully there will be less fight and more quiet diligent legislative work in Toronto. We have lots of recent immigrants there and they need really good example to follow, not the 'circus in town' behavior. It's all yours John Tory, have a great time with it!
  People trust you I am sure, I do too, well, may be.

Why I stopped drinking tap water completely.

A simple drink - glass of water

I've been drinking tap water always - in my home country and here in Canada after immigrating. I never gave it a second thought. I was told that water in Canada is good. Well, it looked pretty good - clean,odorless liquid with no residue whatsoever, perfect as everything in Canada(?). Big civilized country, government is taking care of people.
   How naive. Well I am immigrant. What do I know? I have to survive  - I came to Canada without money.  I have to take care of my family and I did not see the reason not to trust. Authorities know better - they've built such a beautiful country. They know the best.
   Well, appears it is not completely true. People are people everywhere. They pursue their own interests first and foremost. Interests where big  money involved and big companies have large investments. Not a small poor schmuck. Even if he gets sick and dies - we have to see a big picture. Everything should be nice and smooth and quiet. No revolution, no drastic changes. Just little poison here and there and if you have a problem with that - go to your doctor. We have plenty of them in Canada, especially in big cities like Toronto.
   Well, you might ask,what are you talking about?
    I am talking about my decision not to drink tap water anymore. I can afford that if I'll be frugal enough and use it sparingly. No pasta cooking of course. Everything will be steamed or baked or cooked with a little of real water, that one I have to buy at the store, not the one from my tap. That chemical concoction my health cannot endure any more.
   I am not going to tell you to do the same, you might be still young and can tolerate a bit of poison they put it in water. I cannot do that. I want my heart to be healthy. I do not want it to be fluoridated or chlorinated (or whatever else 'nated')up to my ears.
  Since year 2000 I was suffering from severe fibrillation attacks that was simply unbearable because there is no cure from that and only large amounts of magnesium helped me somehow. By a complete accident I stopped  drinking  tap water and then stopped cooking with it - just to prove my son that tap or no tap water  that fact does not make any difference.
  Oh boy, I was wrong! It does make a difference, a huge one. I do not have any fibrillation attacks any more and take some magnesium when I remember to take it just for prophylactics. My heart works like a good oiled Swiss watch.
  I am not telling you to run and do the same, I am not a doctor, I do not have any financial interest in promotion bottled water. I am just a happy person who found something good and now shares it with you. Make your own decision and have a good life.
   Canada have many good qualities, only tap water is not one of them. It looks good though, it's been fooling me for 20 years but not anymore. Well, let's put it this way - at least we do not give children fluoridated milk. In some areas of England they do that. Imagine - fluoridated water, milk, tooth paste everything in the name of health and progress and nice sparkling teeth!
   Oh boy, oh boy, it's so reminds me of my good old (long departed) country of communism. Communism is dead but stupidity and bureaucrat-ism live for ever!
  By the way you can check this link for the places in Canada where stupidity is a little bit less - 
http://www.ffo-olf.org/end.html

Urban jungle survival - how to fight elements.

Please, do understand, I don't mean weather when I am saying "elements"
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   Yes, when you are in a real jungle, you have to fight wild beasts, cold, hunger, what not. But in our civilized world  people are not exposed to wild elements so often. In a civilized society we are surrounded by walls, heaters or/and air conditioners. And it's a good thing.
  We have warm clothing, plenty of places to buy food, transportation - personal or public and shelters. We are getting relaxed. We trust. If it says 'diet' we think it's good. But...
   There are so much hidden elements that may spoil, endanger and ruin your life and those elements do not look like wild beasts at all; and their threat is much more hidden, gentle; and sometimes it takes years to realize, to fully understand what exactly threatens you not less than a wild beast.
   Everything is about safety nowadays -  safe water and plenty of it.
   It's so clean, amazingly transparent,it does not smell, it is tasteless, odorless and seemingly good liquid. We consume it freely, we give it to our children and pets, we drink it from a tap without fear of becoming sick or poisoned by polluted water. Should we? Or should we not?
  We go to a store. Every product is sealed securely, labelled properly. You can read all the ingredients, calories, percentage of everything on a label. The product is in convenient portions and in colorful, inviting, appetizing containers. It has expiration date so you don't have to worry about eating the spoiled products. You trust your food industry, they know the best,they are professionals. They would never sell you a bad product. As soon as it is past expiration date, it is removed from shelves and destroyed - you can rely on that. Can you?
  That's what we all do, well, up to the point. Then we start asking questions. Why? Why my son suddenly gains weight and have dizzy spells(which his doctor calls migraines though he never has headaches, ever).
  We eat normal Canadian  healthy food - why do we all gain weight? Is it because we are immigrants and used to different food? Or is it something more sinister in all this?
  How to fight this?
  You start reading food labels. You see that under all that colorful pictures there is the product that contains  lots of chemicals that are absolutely unnecessary to your nourishment. Okay, may be they are not harmful in small dozes, but what if you eat them day, after day, after day and add other small ingredients of unnecessary chemicals from other food products that are lased with all that stuff that keeps them fresh, appetizingly looking, smooth, sell-able for weeks and months.
  Why do I care if  the sour cream is smooth or not, as long as I know that this is a good and fresh product? Why do I buy a drink and in 2 months (?) forgotten on a kitchen table in summer weather with no refrigeration, not sealed, because somebody drank some of it, and it still tastes good and looks perfect??? Well I tried to drink it for mere curiosity and my stomach felt strange after but nothing happened, not even diarrhea... Long live our food industry, they know how to preserve products and us!
   Well, I am not concerned about shelf life, I have refrigerator and I can go and buy some more products, I don't have to keep them for months and months.
  And I prefer fresh stuff. Not artificially fresh, not chemically laden fresh, but really fresh. And it's shelf life is not going to be months but much less and may be we should learn to deal with that and freeze products when you can or buy them in smaller portions, I don't know.
   I can tell you one thing - when I started to read all labels on regular everyday products I was so appalled, so disgusted  because every single one had some ingredients and sometimes lots of them that are no supposed to be there at all. They do not have any nutritional value for me or anybody else.
  I do not want my milk pasteurized and then laced with synthetic vitamins because natural ones have been lost in a process of pasteurization, I find it's extremely ridiculous.
   I do not like ALL my milk products being made from pasteurized milk with all kind of weird added stuff. I want them to be made from raw, RAW MILK.
   Sour cream, butter, cream, cheese - all that can give you lots and lots nutritional goodness, just do not add crap(chemicals) to it. Something should be done and soon or our children will never have healthy kids of their own and will never know what healthy life is.
  Nowadays they talk a lot about organic food. Okay, organic is perfect but it is expensive and hardly affordable for most people. I certainly cannot afford it. But free run eggs I can afford. And clean, not chlorinated and not fluoridated water I can and I do. Recently I stopped drinking tap water and cooking in it (that one is harder but doable) and  I will tell you next time how amazing it was to my health. That's the elements we have to fight in civilized society. We have to fight our own trust into our civilized rules of the game if you know what I mean. To survive in an urban jungle you have to be not less smart and resourceful than out there  in the wild. Your tools have to be different though. You have to be alert and vigilant and...
 well, let's put it this way. You get up in the morning from your chemically laden anti-inflammable mattress, clean you teeth with fluoridated paste, take your shower in fluoridated water, put on a clean shirt that was chemically dry cleaned, eat cereal full of preservatives and sugar with pasteurized milk, drink chemical juice or coffee made with fluoridated and chlorinated water... I think you've got it. After all that you cannot expect to be healthy. It's a miracle if you still are.
  Annual check-ups are good too but it's not enough. You have to spend some time and really investigate what you are putting into your mouth every day and how you treat your body.
   Is it a garbage disposal for food industry or is it your temple that will serve you loyally through your long and healthy life?
   You just have to take care of it, protect it, really take care of it. It's your survival mode, you can do it if you want a good life. Fight the elements. Small things are important. Now. When it's not too late. When you are still healthy. Stay that way, please.

How I understand politics.

  I can tell you right away - I don't. It looks like a politician is quite a different beast than regular guy. A regular guy cannot publicly admit in doing drugs or driving under influence and not suffer some severe consequences (losing your job is one of them for example). A politician can and be a 'great' guy still.
   A regular schmuck cannot call somebody names in public and get away with it. Unless totally drunk - we still tend to forgive them, he was drunk - such an excuse! And look at our political forums - they call each other names and blame each other in all worldly sins and it is okay. Why?
   Can I go on a bus and tell somebody, "hey, you, idiot, don't talk too loud on your f* phone!" Or, "you, moron, you jacket is dirty and you smell!"
   Double standards - one for regular people and another for, well, they were called 'people's servants' in my old country. They don't call them like that in Canada.
  We vote for them, we select them to serve as our representatives in the government and they do they job nicely (at least in their words they pronounce they sound very nicely and smoothly with good English), and they are full of nice promises like a homeless dog full of fleas...
  After their election it's another story. I think they all develop amnesia and sometimes Alzheimer's disease all together after elections. Very convenient.
  I understand if you are a 'people's servant' (allow me to use this foreign expression, it's so close to the purpose of my narration) and you've disgraced yourself publicly - you should say I am sorry and step aside humbly and shamefully.
   Not in Toronto, Canada. They boldly declare that they are just like everybody else(?) and proceed to a new election - o tempora or mores! Honestly, they should nor even consider let alone stand a chance to be elected, but who knows.
  Canadian people are so nice, so tolerant, so forgiving... I just want to go and throw up, seriously.

Spring is in the air...

   Not yet, not yet you may say. You  are rushing, my dear. Even birds, they were singing or better say chirping last week here and there and then it's cold again, bitterly cold. Nature looks frozen, swallowed by snow, greedy snow that does not want to melt at all this winter.
  I wonder how immigrants who came from warm countries feel in Canada this winter, because this season here stays especially long and cold.
  I am sick again - second time during this winter with nasty cold that does not want to go away at all.
  May be it will disappear together with that old treacherous snow that does not look inviting in a big city at this time of the year.
  When spring comes I always want to go away somewhere, to get rid of everything I have and just run away. I never do that. No, not true. Many-many years ago I dropped everything and everybody and left to Canada with 3 small kids and 2 suitcases. And it was early spring too. And for many years I regretted that decision bitterly but could do nothing about that. Some things you cannot undo. But that's another story. Today we are talking about spring.
  After short warm nice breezy weeks hot humid summer comes and I do not feel that way. I just feel like hiding from all that debilitating heat somewhere. I cannot imagine living in a country that has only 2 seasons - hot humid, very hot like 50C and then rainy season. For me after hot summer there should be some snow and some cold. But in Canada at least in Ontario all that humidity in winter kills all pleasure from a nice frosty day, because it makes you cold so fast that you just have to run from one shelter to another - home - bus - store - work -bus- store - home. A stroll in the park anyone? When it's minus 20 and windchill adds 10 more?
 May be I should invite a polar bear for a company or at least borrow his thick skin? I don't know if they make bear coats but I know that my ship-skin coat helps me to survive very nicely. Bless my friend's generous soul, who gave it to me I do not have to freeze this winter!
   It's nice to have friends. I've lost so many of them - just one left. And with my lifestyle no hope to have new ones. Work - home - chores -sleep - work - who will break that circle? Can I afford to do that?
  I envy people who managed to drop everything and leave and survive... No! I cannot think like that, it's not spring yet. It's still winter in Toronto, I still have time to summon some courage and may be one day break my old routine for good. Spring is in the air... no, sorry, my mistake, it's  abandoned security box on a wall chirping and I have no idea how to turn it off. Oops!

Your comfort zone - your friend or your enemy?

  What is it? Your comfort zone. For different people it's different. It's probably depends on your nature, upbringing, age, the country you are living in and so many other different factors.
  When it is especially nasty outside (like today for example) and you do not want to step out and go to work.
 Well, on days like this I am thinking about poor people many-many years ago when my granddad was young and people were under illusion that revolution and mass killing of half population of your country could solve social and economical problems fast.
  I remember my granddad telling that story not to me but to other people as I was just a little kid but I had ears too and was listening though probably should not. 
   It was about people who were sent to Siberia in winter just because they had more 'stuff' than others.
And at that time word 'rich' was a dangerous one. They were thrown into cattle wagons without any warm clothing, food, anything that could help them to survive and sent for thousand miles into deep forests of Siberia, and left there to die or to survive if you can. And most amazing thing was that some of them managed to survive there - to build a shelter, to find food and eventually to return and to tell their amazing stories.
 My granddad was lucky, he was not that 'rich' and he made sure that he never had any 'stuff' in his possession in future, that no one would envy him or wanted to take away his property. In a socialist country to have something that no one should posses (like two cows for example)  was really dangerous. Through all my life I was thinking about those brave people who managed to survive in absolutely unsurvivable position, when authorities clearly wanted them to die and brought them to Siberia to die. Did they have their comfort zone at all. I know my parents did not. They were scared by system very good and never spoke their mind.
 I was born when that madness was over. None of my close relatives were sent anywhere. Society became more open and tolerant, at least from outside. We still had dissidents. People still could not openly criticize authorizes or government.We still did not know what real freedom inside society meant. Our comfort zone  was to have a job, a family, a good paycheck, friends. People who wanted more usually did not clearly understand what and how they could do that. When my husband wanted to go abroad, I did not. It was clearly outside my comfort zone.
It took me many years to understand what freedom means in Canada for example.
   That no one is going to chaise me around here just because I am different.
   That no one cares how good or bad I speak English.
   That as long as I do not break any laws no one will come to arrest me (for what???).
  Through years here my comfort zone has changed. I think a lot of fear left from it. it's a good thing.
Now I have to learn how to step out of it and accomplish something that I want, that I can, that I should. Because I am alive, free human being and I know I don't have to be afraid anymore. Life is too short.
Though I am still afraid to step out of my comfort zone, because no one is going to come and tell me what to do with my life. I must do it myself.

New 2014, new dreams, promises...

  It's 2014 already, scary in a way.
  Time. It used to be a speeding train, now it's almost like a rocket. I am telling you - the older you become - the faster your time is running out on you.
  You have to be careful with your time, how you spend it; careful with what you spend it on and to think carefully what you can do with it. I wasted so much of it on other people, who never fulfilled their promises to me or to themselves.

  Can I afford to waste what is left for me? No, definitely not!
  I still have some things I need to accomplish and this new year is as good as any. Who knows how many I still have?
  And it's not like I am terminally ill or something (hopefully, I am not!), but life is so unpredictable, you never know.
   I want to learn another European language, most likely French, may be Spanish. To expand mine horizons so to say if nothing else.
  I want to find a company that sells healthy products for everyday use, that are healthy without added harmful stuff, and incorporate them into my household and never-ever use that cheap and harmful crap that I am still using now. And for that I have to learn how to sell those products to other people because without that I won't be able to afford them. I need extra money, they are NOT cheap.
  I am still thinking about buying my own place to live. Don't know if it is realistic in 2014 but I can try.
  May be I should lose some weight for good measure?
  I think that is enough for one year. If I am able to pull all this through in 2014, it will be awesome.
. What do you think?